A Change In Perspective

This week, I was with a counselor friend and she shared a great tool to use when making decisions.  It went like this:

Try this process the next time you are making a big decision.  Close your eyes and imagine yourself in your favorite chair.  Take notice of all that is around you and the smells.  Now think of the decision you have to make.  It may feel big and heavy.  Next, imagine yourself sitting in the same chair with the same smells 20 years down the road.  What does the decision you have to make look like from that point?  Stretch out a few more years.  Try 40 years away, what does the decision look like from your older self in the same favorite chair? By simply changing your perspective, you can find peace in the decisions you make in your life.

Thinking about my older self reminded me of a poem that I heard while in college.  It is a great poem about perspective.  I hope it helps you and those around you to enjoy life even more.  The poem is called, “I Would Pick More Daisies.”


Meredith Bell

I Would Pick More Daisies

When asked “How would you have lived your life differently if you had a chance?” Nadine Stair, an 85-year-old woman, from Louisville, Kentucky, provided these poetic words as her response…

23497741820_98bdd4aa62If I had my life to live over again,
I’d dare to make more mistakes next time.
I’d relax.
I’d limber up.
I’d be sillier than I’ve been this trip.
I would take fewer things seriously.
I would take more chances,
I would eat more ice cream and less beans.

I would, perhaps, have more actual troubles but fewer imaginary ones.
you see, I’m one of those people who was sensible and sane,
hour after hour,
day after day.

Oh, I’ve had my moments.
If I had to do it over again,
I’d have more of them.
In fact, I’d try to have nothing else- just moments,
one after another, instead of living so many years ahead of each day.

I’ve been one of those persons who never goes anywhere without a thermometer, a hot-water bottle, a raincoat, and a parachute.
If I could do it again, I would travel lighter than I have.

If I had to live my life over,
I would start barefoot earlier in the spring
and stay that way later in the fall.
I would go to more dances,
I would ride more merry-go-rounds,
I would pick more daisies.

– Nadine Stair

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